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LottaHeat1441 54/M
Kalamazoo, Michigan
Introduction
Hmm... descriptions: Some of this is just off the cuff about me, & the latter bits are something I recently wrote when a member here asked about how to have/create intimacy.
Affectionate, Risk Taker, Bold though Introspective. Treasure the little things, & basics in life, especially shared. Sometimes too good @ reading others, other times my head’s up my heine. VERY smart, at times too much for my own good… basically human.
A good communicator. LOVE giving & getting affection [for a second or a weekend]. Doing both the mundane & exciting together, but the togetherness is what adds the specialness to everything. It’s like a dance, & I love that too. Plus curling up by the fire. Drinking wine, sometimes off of each other… you get the idea.
Fall in love Easily. Savor life!!!
If my [ex]girlfriend [was] flustered, overspun about something, or we need to talk; seriously, or just to plan our day, I'd sit down & pull her into my lap. And the touch, plus the closeness creates a lot of intimacy. As well as calming things down if one or both of us was wound up. She'd never had anyone do that kind of thing with her before, & commented that it was a HUGE thing for her. It was one of her new favorite things.
Another is on a lazy morning, or afternoon, I'll sit down [usually in a pair of boxers] on the commode with the lid down. Then have her sit in my lap & shave my face.
Try it, odds are you'll both enjoy it, & "get" the intimacy part.
I'm a big fan of kissing too. Be it a long session on the couch, the car, back of the movie theater... Or lifting her hair up when she's in the kitchen, & breathing hot breath on her neck prior to a light kiss there, or under the ear.
Mostly it's about the "how" of touching,& the energy involved in it. Small caresses here & there, often out of the blue as a surprise. An arm around the waist. Short, surprise, PDA's - both subtle & overt. Being open, & playful with each other... whenever.
Lose the "Rule Book" & just enjoy being around one another as much as possible. Unless you're real distasteful, odds are others will; be semi-jealous, & soon come to mimic your actions.
At least that's been my experience.
Besides it's FUN.
Passion isn't something which happens in life, it's the meaning of life!
PS: The gestures needn't be sexual, affectionate, flirty, or simply reaffirming's more than enough.
- Oh, & don't get the idea that I despise doing life's routine, & or comforting (sometimes decadent type) things, too.
My Ideal Person Someone who's openminded, and speaks her mind. Albeit, she trusts her intuition above everything else.
She likes to spend a weekend/day off/as much time as can be "stolen" -> lounging [amongst other things]; in bed, or off on an adventure, exploring -> our home town or... Nepal.
I'm very attentive & affectionate, so I prefer spending time with folks who aren't shy about much (& touch).
I love being outdoors as much as in, and doing pretty much anything which comes to mind... in most places you might be bold enough to try venturing them.
People are always at ease around me, they feel comfortable expressing their genuine selves. And life gets Real interesting from there...
My Ideal Person Someone who's openminded, and speaks her mind. Albeit, she trusts her intuition above everything else.
She likes to spend a weekend/day off/as much time as can be "stolen" -> lounging [amongst other things]; in bed, or off on an adventure, exploring -> our home town or... Nepal.
I'm very attentive & affectionate, so I prefer spending time with folks who aren't shy about much (& touch).
I love being outdoors as much as in, and doing pretty much anything which comes to mind... in most places you might be bold enough to try venturing them.
People are always at ease around me, they feel comfortable expressing their genuine selves. And life gets Real interesting from there...
Information
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
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Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women) |
Birthdate: | October 1, 1969 |
Relocate?: | Maybe/Yes |
Marital Status: | Single |
Height: | 6 ft 1 in / 185-187 cm |
Body Type: | Athletic |
Smoking: | I'm a non-smoker |
Drinking: | I'm a light/social drinker |
Drugs: | I don't use drugs |
Education: | Some grad school |
Race: | Mixed |
Religion: | Spiritual |
Have Children: | No |
Want Children: | Maybe |
Male Endowment: | Long/Very thick |
Circumcised: | Yes |
Speaks: | English, German |
Hair Color: | Black |
Hair Length: | Medium |
Eye Color: | Hazel |
Glasses or Contacts: | None |